the Daily Wag Day #13: A Drenched Doggy and Drippy Dad

Sandy tells me that she thinks this may be the “soggiest” class to date – and I believe her. It feels like we’ve been “swimming” most of our walks here lately, but I guess that only heightens the value of the rain gear I purchased at the beginning of class, right? If only they had “guide octopi”…

We kicked off the morning with a splash through some puddles and a trip to the gym, which is now the second time Piper and I have worked the route. Sandy hung back just a bit while we worked our way down Carter Creek toward Aerofit, which went quite flawlessly I must say. Since we were all drenched to the bone, a quick turnaround took place when we hit the front doors of the gym. That’s when things got a tad on the frustrating side.

Training has been rather tiring, I haven’t slept, we’re in the middle of a freaking monsoon and now – on top of everything – Piper and I have a breakdown on the way back home. In reality, what is a pretty simple and understandable situation, is blown out of proportion by me, sending the energy level on our walk into seriously negative territory. Piper has slowed to a crawl now, as she’s rather bummed that we’re just turning right back around to head home. Instead of keep a chipper tone to my voice and stay positive with her, I get a little agitated and slightly grumpy, which only feeds the negativity in the air. I’m so glad Sandy called me out on it, though, because someone had to. And – since she did – I’ve been able to, for the most part, control my frustration, which is the healthy response for our team.

After a few hours of drying off and airing out, the sun actually broke through the gloom and doom overhead, which changed our afternoon walk into an outside route instead of the mall. We took the first leg of my long neighborhood walk, which essentially ended up being a route from my house to the nearby elementary school. Being the first time on a new route, Piper was bouncy and energetic, but most importantly, safe and confident. It really reminded me of Larry, which made me happy, too.

We worked through tons of obstacles – including some sort of strange looking hedgehog creature and a huge crater directly next to a sidewalk, where I presume they uprooted some behemoth of a tree. We made it to the school, where we found a bench and treated Piper a bit. I think this helped our return home a bit, because she only slowed up a little on the way home. It was great to walk this route, because Larry and I were quite familiar with it. Sandy and I made some modifications to it, as well, which made the route a bit safer and easier to navigate.

I’m tired and achy, which is probably to no surprise at this point. Maybe I should rename this blog and RSS feed something about my terrible bouts with sleeplessness. Until I do, you can go ahead and subscribe to “the Daily Wag” RSS feed to get the latest news on my training journey with Piper – and whether I’ve actually managed to log a few hours of rest.

Simmer Down, Employers – I’m Off the Job Market

Many of you have been keeping tabs on me with regards to my employment status, so I’m happy to report that I’ve been on an assignment with my new gig for the past week and a half. It’s been pretty awesome, I must say, and I’ve definitely found myself in good company. The job comes with decent pay, some excellent benefits and a whole slew of on-the-job training and experience.

I figured I’d post a short list of some responsibilities found in the job description. I’m certain I wasn’t the most qualified candidate, but I think I’m filling my role quite nicely.

  • Foster a healthy environment for one-on-one communication with team members.
  • Construct an array of engaging resources for the development and growth of team members.
  • Monitor work environment and ensure it is kept tidy and organized at all times.
  • Adhere to schedule and time restraints with promptness and punctuality.
  • Assess and diffuse hostile and chaotic situations at a moments notice.
  • Deal with unfavorable and unsatisfactory team output swiftly, ensuring to file the proper paperwork.
  • Frequently assess sentiment of team members and strive to keep morale high – deploying any means necessary, regardless of how off the wall a solution may seem.
  • Encourage communication of team members with internal and external communities.
  • Use expert discretion to provide additional resources when necessary – or when team members are particularly fussy that afternoon.

This is one fussy team member - wouldn't you agree?Who doesn’t have “fussy” “team members”? It’s been quite the learning experience being a stay-at-home daddy. I can’t tell you how many profound lessons this little guy teaches me every single day. Couple that with attempting to build my business in the flitters of silence found during nap times, it’s a recipe for a long, long day.

It’s been interesting to explain my daily workload to friends, particularly those without kids of their own. A list like this is hardly an exaggeration, and I often find myself completely drained at the end of the day. Is it worth it? You bet.

I go back and forth on creating a separate stream of tweets for all the amusing little stories that come out of our day together. But for now, just go ahead and follow my primary Twitter account for funny stories, silly observations and a daily spit up tabulation.

I’d Rather Have a Root Canal than Buy a New Car

A 2011 Honda CRV. Its color is glacier blue, which is a medium tint blue with a metallic sheen to it.I said we wouldn’t do it, but having a kid changes a lot of things, one of which being holiday travel arrangements. Our plan was to stay in College Station for Christmas this year, mostly because neither of us expected to meet Tyson before his due date in mid-December. Alas – he came a few weeks earlier than expected and, of course, we made the trek into Arlington for the holiday get-together with my family.

It became readily apparent as I played cargo Tetris for the umpteenth time – the Romacks teeny, tiny Honda Fit wasn’t really fitting much of anything. It’s amazing how roomy those things are – when it’s just Angela and me sucking up the oxygen inside the cabin of this subcompact. Add a dog, or two, and another human being, and you’ve got a recipe for cramped and cranky commuters.

Imagine my surprise when, coincidentally, the good folks at Rusty Wallace Honda in Dallas hit up our phone with an intriguing proposition. It’s the same old song and dance – they’re in need of used vehicles, ours is a couple years old, they want it and will offer us a brand new vehicle for no money down and the same monthly payment. As I unravel the offer a bit, we negotiate that, for a few extra bucks each month, our growing family will step into the SUV terrain with Honda’s snappy little CRV.

I don’t like buying cars. Sure – I love to inhale the sweet aroma of glorious new car scent for a few months, but I’m not keen on dealing with the middle man needed to have this said scent grace my nostrils. Don’t get me wrong, Rusty Wallace Honda is hands down where we’ll buy our cars time after time because they’ve done good business with us on every occasion. I just can’t help but get a little irritated by the false flattery and disingenuous buddy-buddy conversation that goes down with many of the car salesman I’ve  encountered through the years.

You know what, though? I have to catch myself from slipping into the slick salesman, hyper-personable businessman mode from time to time. It’s always a humbling experience when I buy cars because it pits me against these expertly trained and highly motivated fast talkers – and reminds me that I can’t base my business on smooth talking and ulterior motives.

As we take delivery of our sexy new set of wheels tomorrow afternoon, I will be sure to remember that I strive to establish my relationships on integrity. I foster transparency and openness with my friends, colleagues and clients. I say what I mean and mean what I say. I desire to cultivate a personal and professional brand that resonates these ideals – each and every time. Not just when a pitch hangs in the balance. Not because a deal is about to go down.

How are you striving for integrity in your marketplace? What ideals and principles do you desire to resonate with your network? Spare a few seconds and let me know in the comments.